What are These Boundary Things and How do I get One?

DO you read self-help books? HAVE you been in therapy? ARE you on social media? IN FACT are you a person who is alive in the world (well, the rich white western world, anyway)? If so then you, like me, probably know all too well that you CANNOT have a good relationship or, like, life, … Continue reading What are These Boundary Things and How do I get One?

My “Choice” To Be Bisexual

One person, when I recently told them that I am bisexual, responded by saying ‘Well, that’s your choice’. Here’s a short, sweet explanation of exactly what I have been able to choose about my sexuality. The Parts I Don’t Choose My sexuality. Who I’m sexually attracted to ain’t my choice. For me that can be … Continue reading My “Choice” To Be Bisexual

Why I Am Not Happy With My ME/CFS Diagnosis

Two weeks ago I was diagnosed with ME/CFS. It didn’t come as a surprise; it was obvious that that was what I had. Two members of my family have had it for a very long time, so I know most of what there is to know about it. And I was pretty upset. Which surprised … Continue reading Why I Am Not Happy With My ME/CFS Diagnosis